“Anger is hot coal you hold in your hand while waiting to throw it at somebody.”
Apt words.
During my long corporate career there have been many times I was angry about something/on someone.
Over a period, I realized that ‘remaining in the state of anger’ for a substantial period affected only my mental health and my performance.
Then I slowly learned (rather still learning) the art of cooling self in those instants and understanding whether the display of anger was needed at those moments.
Over some time, I learned to raise my vibrations at a different level so as not to attract those instances or people in my life.
A very important skill to first learn and then to keep developing.